Sex toys have come a long way from being a taboo topic to becoming an integral part of many couples' intimate lives. Incorporating sex toys into your relationship can improve pleasure, communication, and overall satisfaction.
In this blog, we'll have a look into the whys and hows of using sex toys for couples and introduce you to some of the best options available in the market.
Why Should Couples Use Sex Toys?
1. Variety and Exploration:
One of the key reasons couples turn to sex toys is to add variety and spice to their intimate experiences. These toys provide a platform for exploring new sensations and fantasies, ultimately strengthening the bond between partners.
2. Enhanced Pleasure:
Sex toys are designed to stimulate erogenous zones in ways that traditional methods might not achieve. Whether it's clitoral, vaginal, or anal stimulation, sex toys can intensify pleasure for both partners, leading to more satisfying encounters.
3. Communication and Connection:
Using sex toys encourages open communication about desires, preferences, and boundaries. Couples can explore each other's fantasies and experiment with different sensations, fostering a deeper emotional connection.
4. Addressing Sexual Discrepancies:
Did you know that only 20% of women climax through penetration alone. Sex toys can bridge the orgasm gap by providing additional stimulation or catering to specific desires, ensuring both partners find pleasure and fulfillment.
How to Introduce Sex Toys to Your Relationship?
1. Communication is Key:
Start by having an open and honest conversation with your partner about introducing sex toys. Discuss your desires, boundaries, and any concerns either of you may have. Establishing clear communication builds trust and ensures a positive experience.
2. Choose the Right Moment:
As our fave podcaster says, follow the three T’s: Timing, tone and turf!
3. Education:
Share information about the benefits of using sex toys, emphasizing that they are not a replacement for your partner but a complement to your intimate life. Knowledge dispels myths and misconceptions, making the idea more approachable.
4. Shop Together:
Make the experience collaborative by shopping for sex toys together. This is a fun and intimacy building adventure for you both to enjoy!
Top Sex Toys for Couples
1. Lelo Tor 2:
This is a Pleasure & Intimacy favorite for so many reasons! Pleasure for both, longer and stronger orgasms and even after he climaxes you can still lay on top and enjoy clit stimulation. The Lelo Tor 2 is a vibrating cock ring designed to enhance pleasure for both partners. It provides clitoral stimulation while also prolonging erections, making it a versatile addition to the bedroom.
2. We-Vibe Sync:
We-Vibe have designed a powerful couples vibrator that offers pleasure vibes for both partners. The We-Vibe Sync is a couples' vibrator that can be worn during intercourse. It stimulates the clitoris and G-spot simultaneously, offering hands-free pleasure for both partners.
3. Dame Eva:
Eva is a hands-free couple's vibrator designed to be worn during intercourse. Its flexible wings tuck under the labia, providing clitoral stimulation without hindering penetration.
4. Magic Wand Rechargeable:
A classic in the world of sex toys, the Magic Wand Rechargeable is a powerful wand vibrator that can be used for solo or couples' play. Its versatility and strength make it a popular choice. Fun fact: A 2008 study found that over 93% of a group of 500 chronic anorgasmic women could reach orgasm using the Magic Wand. The Magic Wand is a great place to start on your journey of sex toy shopping. Use your imagination and use the Magic Wand in foreplay to stimulate her clitoris, caress her breasts and neck. For him, lightly run the Wand Vibrator from the frenulum to the base of the shaft and back again, pausing occasionally to extend the experience. It’ll be raining orgasms
5. Dame Pom:
Dame Pom is a versatile handheld vibrator with a soft, flexible body. Its ergonomic design makes it easy to use during partnered or solo play, offering a range of sensations.
6. B-Vibe Snug Plug 3:
For couples interested in anal play, the B-Vibe Snug Plug 3 offers a range of sizes for gradual exploration. Its tapered design and body-safe materials ensure a comfortable experience.
7. Lelo Hugo:
Designed for prostate stimulation, the Lelo Hugo is a remote-controlled vibrating massager that enhances pleasure during intimate moments between male partners.
Integrating sex toys into your relationship can be an enriching experience. From increasing pleasure to fostering communication, these devices offer a lot of benefits. Remember that the key to successful introduction lies in open communication, mutual consent, and a willingness to explore together.
Why Choose Pleasure & Intimacy to Shop for Sex Toys?
Pleasure & Intimacy offers discreet shipping and shopping with the largest selection of brand name sex toys. Our friendly customer service team provides tailored guidance on finding toys optimized for both partners' preferences and anatomies. Discover intimate products to increase closeness while taking advantage of free shipping, flexible payment plans to fit any budget, so couples can explore their sexuality worry-free. Pleasure & Intimacy has built trust through quality products and superior service. Feel 100% comfortable selecting toys to strengthen your sexual connection thanks to our couples-only focus.
FAQs:
Q: Are sex toys only for solo play? Can I use them with a partner?
A: Absolutely! Many sex toys are designed for couples' use, enhancing pleasure for both partners during intimate moments.
Q: How can I bring up sex toys for the first time with a partner?
A: Choose a comfortable setting, communicate openly about your desires, and emphasize the positive aspects of introducing sex toys to enhance your intimate connection.
Q: What do we mean when we refer to "body safe" in sex toys?
A: "Body safe" indicates that a sex toy is made from materials that are non-toxic and safe for intimate use, reducing the risk of irritation or allergic reactions.
Q: Is a sex toy supposed to be used internally or externally?
A: It depends on the type of sex toy. Some are designed for external stimulation (e.g., clitoral vibrators), while others can be used internally (e.g., dildos, vibrators for internal stimulation). Always follow the manufacturer's guidelines for safe use.
