Before we jump in to explore the top 5 sexual fantasies of 2023 as surveyed by our customers in North America.

You might be asking yourself, what drives people to actually act on their fantasies, it can vary widely from person to person. Some may act on it out of a sense of adventure or curiosity, while others may seek emotional or physical satisfaction. It's important to note that engaging in any kind of sexual activity should be consensual and safe for all parties involved.

Top of the list, threesomes! 

Threesome sexual fantasies have become increasingly popular among couples and individuals in recent years. Many people are curious about exploring this sexual experience with their partners or exploring it on their own. We cannot stress it enough that if you're curious about having a threesome that you approach this fantasy with caution and communicate openly with all parties involved. Threesomes require a high level of trust and understanding between all participants, and it is important to establish boundaries and discuss expectations beforehand. What drives people to act on their threesome fantasy?

1. Novelty: Threesome fantasies allow people to experience something new and exciting that they may not be able to experience in their typical sexual routine. The idea of being with two partners at the same time can be stimulating and arousing.

2. Curiosity: People may have a natural curiosity about what it would be like to have sex with more than one person at the same time. This can be especially true for people who are sexually adventurous or exploration happy.

3. Desire for variety: Threesome fantasies can be driven by a desire for variety in sexual experiences. People may crave for new sensations, sexual partners or the chance to explore a different sexual dynamic.

4. Sexual fulfillment: For some people, having a threesome is a way to fulfill sexual needs or desires that cannot be met within a typical monogamous relationship.

Next up, BDSM! 

BDSM has been an increasingly popular topic of discussion in recent years. BDSM stands for Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, and Sadism and Masochism. It is a form of consensual sexual play that involves role-play, power dynamics, and various forms of restraint. BDSM sexual fantasy can be enjoyed alone or with a partner and allows individuals to explore their deepest desires and fantasies in a safe and consensual manner. As with all sexual practices, communication and consent are crucial elements in BDSM. It is important that you establish boundaries and negotiate limits before engaging in any sexual activity in order to ensure a safe and enjoyable experience for everyone involved.

A sexual fantasy list wouldn't be complete without... sex toys!   

Sex toys have been widely used in the realm of sexual pleasure and experimentation. They have been seen as a way to enhance intimacy and sexual satisfaction. It is not uncommon for couples to incorporate sex toys into their sexual fantasies to intensify their experiences. Incorporating sex toys into sexual fantasies can also facilitate role playing and exploration of different sexual scenarios. Proper communication and understanding of boundaries are essential in any sexual relationship. When used responsibly, sex toys can be a valuable asset in enhancing one's sexual experiences.

We love this one, more meaningful sex! Yes please!!! It might not immediately seem like a sexual fantasy but a majority of both men and women (70 per cent) rarely crave "emotionless" sex, and instead prefer to feel desired, appreciated and loved.

Both men and women also said feeling sexually competent and irresistible was a turn-on.  And a whopping nine out ten people said they fantasised about their current partner - and regularly too.  

Last but certainly not least, same sex fantasies!

Same-sex fantasies are a topic that has been gaining increased attention. The idea of sexual attraction to someone of the same gender is not a new concept, and it is important to acknowledge that it is a valid and natural aspect of human sexuality. Same-sex fantasies and attractions can vary in intensity and frequency, and they do not necessarily define an individual's sexual orientation. Rather, they are a part of one's overall sexual desires and preferences. As society continues to become more accepting of diverse sexual orientations and expressions, it is important to have open and honest conversations about same-sex fantasies and remove any stigmas or judgments that may exist.

We love to hear from our customers.  Whether it's feedback on our products, new sex positions you and your partner have tried or that sexual fantasy you just can't get out of your head.  Send us a DM.  We'd love to hear from you! 

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